Life Snippets: The Second Half of 2018

Again, I’m more than several months behind with my biannual life update.

You know very well that blogging hasn’t been a priority in my life lately throughout the last years, although I certainly sometimes miss my regular writing routine. I’ve often felt bad for neglecting the audience I built with this blog. But to be honest, since the beginning of 2019, blogging has barely been on my mind at all. Sometimes, life is just so much bigger than social media updates.

I will eventually write about how my life turned upside down since the beginning of 2019, but for now, I still need to recap the second half of 2018 which, in retrospect, seems so uneventful, so easy and happy.

August and Summer Heat

While everybody was on vacation or hanging at the pool in August’s glorious summer heat (which was so spectacular for Germany but also scary cf. climate crisis), I took advantage of those quiet office hallways and tried to work as much as possible.

I only took one single day off of work in August — and used it to shoot a wedding!

The old city center of my adopted home town Göttingen always makes a great backdrop

With that giant destination wedding photography gig in Croatia in June 2018, I actually hadn’t wanted to take on more jobs at first. But I knew J and J from a couple photo session we did back in 2015 and they sweetly asked me to shoot their wedding because they loved my photos so much — and who can say no to that?

So I happened to photograph a 12-hour wedding day in my home town Göttingen, Lower Saxony, on one of the hottest days of the year. We met in the city’s old botanical garden in the morning for the first portrait session and basically spent the day melting together until the middle of the night. (But they had spontaneously organized a wading pool at the reception which was a hit with the guests!)

How I know I found the right clients: I tell them to dance in the street because the light is great and they just do it!
I love it when my couples ask me for a photo during family portrait session — it makes me feel like I’m a friend, not a random service provider!

Despite the amazing weather in August, I spent most of time in front of my computer only taking my camera out when I was hired — meaning I can basically only share photos I took for other people.

My other photography project in August was a family / newborn session. I usually don’t shoot newborns, because you need so much stuff (heating lamps and all kinds of pretty props because babies don’t really do much), but this was a favor for a friend and her little family was hilarious. They also fed me very well during this shoot.

A fun little activity for a summer photo session with a toddler: berry-picking!

Oh, and even my own mom my “hired” me to take photos of her for side hustle in August: She is a pilates instructor and needed new content for her Facebook page.

Hi mom!

(I’m sensing a theme here, only photographing friends / family and not treating photography as a proper business. But that’s what feels right for me these days, I just can’t handle an all-in side hustle right now.)

And in non-photography-business news: My baby sister graduated from med school in August (I know, what?)! I snuck into her graduation reception to take a few photos and loved returning to the beautiful city of Marburg for the event! The University of Marburg, from which Anneke graduated, is actually one of the oldest universities in Germany, founded in 1527!

Marburg’s pretty old town hall
And this kids, is what happens when you forget to put your camera’s lens hood on in a super bright setting (I still like this photo though)
With my baby sis who is a DOCTOR now!
Marburg is such a beautiful little university town — definitely stop by if you ever end up in the state of Hessen!

September is the New June

— when it comes to weddings at least. I had three (!) weddings in September: I attended my cousin’s ceremony, I photographed a civil ceremony, and I partied at the reception of a friend (and couldn’t help taking photos there, too).

But before I bombard you with all of the wedding photos, I’m sharing the results of practicing my photography by finding the most beautiful scenes of harvest season. I rarely find the time to practice these days, but I noticed how good it felt to reconnect to my creativity again.

Okay, I apparently did develop a mild obsession for the apple tree in my parents’ garden
My parents also have a plum tree!

And now to those three September weddings I photographed / attended. Seriously, if life in your early thirties means anything it’s attending SO. MANY. WEDDINGS.

I loved how my cousin picked September sunflowers for her bouquet
Wedding look aka my (somewhat desperate?) attempt to dress a little more like Meghan Markle
Gothic lancet windows and chandeliers certainly create the right setting for a wedding!

The weekend after my cousin’s wedding, I was hired to accompany a civil ceremony in Northern Germany. It was super fun and a new little photography challenge as V was my first ever pregnant bride! From what I hear, it can be tricky to feel airy and beautiful at eight months pregnant, so I really tried to create images that they would love to look at later.

I’m a sucker for all of those first look emotions!

The last September wedding was finally one to party! A friend and former co-worker got married in Aix-la-Chapelle where I had never been before — although it’s home to a world-famous medieval cathedral!

First dance (and a bride with some killer running claves!)

(Just in case you’re wondering: I’m sharing photos of people from behind, out of focus, or covered faces when they didn’t sign an official contract with me. My photography clients however sign a contract that allows me to share their photos online for portfolio purposes. Kids are obviously always excluded from this contract.)

We did get up early the morning after the wedding so I could see the stunning cathedral of Aix-la-Chapelle (which is way too gigantic for a prime lens)

Fall in Montenegro

For our big trip of 2018 in late September, Steffen and I chose Montenegro. Just like the years before in the Western USA and Iceland, we hired a car to explore the country by road tripping.

In the USA and Iceland, we covered a lot of ground in a really short time, but in Montenegro we wanted to take the pace out of the road trip by sometimes staying for two nights so we would spent less time in the car and more time getting to know the country better.

It worked out perfectly: We came home so relaxed and so in awe with Montenegro. It squeezes everything you could ask for (beaches! mountains! canyons! forests! old cities!) into a comparably small place and we both fell hard for one of Europe’s newest countries with its gorgeous scenery, its beautiful coast, its friendly locals, and its impeccable seafood.

I know I shared way so many photos from our Montenegro hiking adventures already, but I have about 50 more photos I just need to put out there now. (I am a little sorry for your scrolling thumb, but I feel like I owe it to Montenegro to get the word out there how wonderful it is!)

We started our Montenegro road trip in Kolašin to visit Biogradska Gora National Park — such a wonderful first impression of the country! (All of the hiking advice here!)
From Kolašin we drove to Durmitor National Park (through stunning Tara Canyon)
— where we spent two nights in the absurdly picturesque small town of Žabljak
We found ancient tombstones there, too!
Our rental car with some rather scenic mountain views near Žabljak
From the mountains in the north we headed inland to see an important Orthodox pilgrimage site — experiencing the Monastery of Ostrog was humbling and also slightly intimidating
And then we drove to the coast: This was our first glimpse of Kotor Bay!
We stayed in the small town of Herceg Novi which we absolutely adored!
Herceg Novi almost looks like a movie set!
I swear this in an accidental Instagrammer pose, I was honestly just laughing at the ridiculousness of this touristy photo op
The view from Herceg Novi’s clock tower
What the Bay of Kotor looks like from Herceg Novi’s castle
Lobster spaghetti for dinner in Herceg Novi — easily one of the best things I’ve ever eaten!
And this was certainly the prettiest view I ever had from a hotel bed!
From Herceg Novi we drove deeper into the Bay of Kotor
— and stopped for lunch in the gorgeous little city of Perast
Lunch in Perast was such a hit!
And Perast is so photogenic it almost hurts
We also took a boat to see the island with the famous Our Lady of the Rocks church (which I kind of forgot to photograph because I had to pee, just keeping it real here)
Our next stop was the city of Kotor where we spent two nights
Kotor is famous for its fortress and its cats — there are seriously so many! (Although we’re not really cat people we felt obliged to visit Kotor’s Cat Museum which was hilariously weird)
September nights in Kotor with the husband
Kotor’s essence in a single shot: Kitten with a bay view!
From Kotor we continued our road trip down the coast — first stop: Budva!
Budva’s old town is very pretty — but also super crowded (I really don’t know how I got a photo without any people in it)
Beaches of Budva
… and another seafood lunch break!
Verdict: Budva is very beautiful, but I’m glad we only spent a few hours here because it’s crazy touristy
Next obligatory photo stop on the road trip down Montenegro’s coastline: The famous private island of Sveti Stefan!
Our last destination on the coast: the beach town of Ulcinj (which is very close to the Albanian border!) where we spent two nights
This was the balcony view from our accommodation in Ulcinj — cliffs, beaches, castle walls, and minarets!
We stayed in a guest room with a sweet old couple who brought us Turkish coffee when we checked in — one of the reasons Ulcinj felt closer to the Arab part of the world!
Morning thunderstorm in Ulcinj seen from our balcony! (I couldn’t get over this view)
Ulcinj’s boardwalk is basically a real-life postcard
We really liked Ulcinj, but we didn’t really experience its summer vibes properly as we arrived here on October 1st — and tourism basically shuts down for the season on September 30th.
But at least we found one last single beach bar that sold us beer while they were literally wrapping up sun chairs and scrubbing the grill!
(I know, this blog post looks like a Nikšićko Pivo commercial by now, but Montenegrins love their beer and we grew to love it, too!)
One of my favorite moments in Ulcinj: We had breakfast in a restaurant on the city’s boardwalk and I ordered the 3 Euro omelette. To avoid any unpleasant meat surprises, I asked the waiter if there was anything else in the omelette — “just some cheese” he said. And then I got a giant plate with eggs, various cheeses, lettuce, tomatoes, cucumbers, fries, and the usual giant bread basket. Let me repeat: My beach-side breakfast cost 3 Euros and came with surprise fries! Surprise fries!! (You know how much I love fries!)
Verdict: Ulcinj is THE perfect value-for-money beach destination, but you should probably come here in high season
Because we’re crazy, we decided to drive through the entire country for a second time to see more mountains — and bypassed Lake Skadar National Park on the way!
Old boats and Lake Skadar in the rain
Lake Skadar is the the biggest lake in the Balkans — and home to flamingos!
The big detour was SO worth it for this experience of Prokletije National Park
One of the many moments Montenegro left me speechless! This hike was thing we could have done on our last full day in Montenegro!

Into Winter

My last photography project in 2018 was a family session for my sister and her little family in October. My baby nephew B was born in April 2018 and he had developed a hilariously toothless smile over the summer which made our session super fun.

We lucked out with this stunning October light and foliage

After that October photo session, I took my camera with me on a stroll in early November — and then I poured all my energy into work for the rest of the year. I’ve noticed how splitting my creativity to attend to more than one project is simply not working for me. Thus I’m choosing work as my creativity outlet for now — which feels right, but is also terrible for blog content.

Weirdly enough, I don’t even know what I did in November and December (except for two work trips that needed a lot of preparation). I barely have any memories of Christmas parties or Christmas markets, let alone any photos of them. I just really concentrated on work, which in retrospect, was a good choice as wouldn’t find a lot of time in 2019.

But seriously, is it strange that I need to take photos to remember what I’ve been doing? I’ve heard it’s scientifically proven that time feels like it’s going by much faster when you’re suck in a routine. And this is certainly what happened to me in 2018.

Sometimes I’m a little shocked at the randomness of these biannual round-ups which summarize my life pretty well: They consist of talking about work mixed with a yearly vacation, a few weekend getaways, family gatherings, weddings, and a little beauty spotted in-between.

These round-ups present such a normal life. But writing this from a 2019 perspective, I’ve started to appreciate a normal life more than anything.

2018 was a great year: I learned a ton about myself, I fell in love with the Balkans even more, but I also created routines which let many of those good everyday life moments go by unnoticed — which is a little sad, because 2019 taught me how everything can change in an instant. (But more on that in my next blog post.)

Do your routines sometimes get in the way of being really present, too?