I feel like being a little too redundant with starting off this monthly recap with the same cliché I used for my April wrap-up, but it just sounds so adequate this time around as well: May was a month of quite a few ups and downs regrading life, weather, and emotional states.
But if writing monthly round-up posts has taught me anything yet, then that life is just like a constant roller coaster ride sometimes. Maybe this is just the reality of 20-something life. Maybe this is even just life in general.
But how would we even notice the highlights if there weren’t any low-lights to compare them to, right?
Late spring/early summer in Germany is the best season to travel, because there are so many public holidays. They vary from state to state (those Catholic Bavarians get so many holidays!), and I unfortunately live in a state with a very small amount of public holidays, but I made really good use of them this May: I booked two (!) extended international weekend getaways! Not needing to use up any vacation days plus the good chance of spring weather abroad are definitely the ingredients for a promising trip.
Now, the weather part didn’t really work out in Luxembourg, but I actually didn’t really mind at all. Strolling through the pretty streets and stopping for a beer here and there was actually a perfect way to spend a weekend abroad — it was exactly what I needed.
Whereas Luxembourg was just spontaneous “winter compensation trip”, the weekend in London was long planned: I had given my boyfriend Steffen his ticket for Christmas and had been looking forward to this trip all year, because it was the only trip I had planned for 2015 when the year started: I had fallen in love with London back in 2012 and I couldn’t wait to go back with Steffen to see if he loved the city as much as I did.
In London, we basically stuck to our “Luxembourg routine” of walking and day-drinking (sorry mom), but London obviously made us walk quite the distances. We didn’t do proper sightseeing (as in paying to see stuff), but rather “walk-by-sight-spotting” and thus ended up walking more than 60k (not kidding, we GPS-tracked it) within those 2.5 days in London.
Other than ruining my feet though, I also completely blew my budget in London. Three years ago, I had stayed with a friend for free and I didn’t feel like London was that expensive. This time however with paying (hostel) accommodation over the Pentecost/Memorial Day/bank holiday weekend, no included breakfast, the need to drink as many fancy lattes as possible, and the weak Euro, I could almost literally feel the money running through my fingers.
We stayed at the brand-new, super stylish Wombat’s, but holy moly, it was crazy expensive!
The negative highlight of the budget-blowing London adventure: The crazy strict hand luggage restrictions in Heathrow. Our suitcase was just half an inch too large and we had to check it even though we had flown into London with the same airline and it hadn’t been a problem before. I’ll definitely frame that checking receipt, because at 65 pounds (currently over 90 Euros!) that luggage tag is the most expensive souvenir I ever brought home from a trip.
My empty bank account (and unintentionally putting off having my hair cut for yet another year) aside, London was amazing, the coffee was even better than I remembered, and I can’t wait to return some day — when my finical situation can at least keep up with the Londoners a little bit.
If we bloggers are honest to ourselves, we’re a narcissistic breed: Writing about our own lives and expecting others to have an interest in it, is incredibly self-centered.
I would actually never dare to tell someone I just met that I have a blog, because I find it embarrassing to admit that I write so much about myself. I want to keep this online life my dirty little secret — and I almost fainted when I heard that someone at work had googled my name and found about this blog.
I like my off-screen life and my online persona’s life to be to separated. And I call it an online persona, because this blog and everything that comes with it is very me — but it also isn’t. Although my frequent typos don’t look like it, the egocentric content I share online is very highly curated.
But I also paint the picture of a geeky life that centers around pretty photos of coffees and flowers — when I truly sometimes don’t even find the strength to do my laundry or go grocery shopping. I had few very depressing days in May, and I almost felt disgusted by my funny-geeky online persona.
Because the truth is that I only wear nail polish for better travel photos, that I arrange my coffees for Instagram, and that I enhance my skin in Lightroom before I post a photo of myself on the blog. I make my life look a whole lot more interesting and pretty than it actually is.
Sometimes it’s good to force myself to find the prettiness in my everyday life, but sometimes I also struggle with it because making everything look pretty makes me feel like a fraud. And I still don’t know how to cope with this paradox adequately.
As I said above, May was just as great as it was sad. But sunny days, travel plans, and the smell of lilac really helped coping with the less pleasant events this month.
Like the months before, I also made an effort to be a tourist at home in Germany a little more. Even when my couch was way more comfy than the thought of putting actual pants on, I made myself to go outside (almost) every day and find something pretty to take a picture of.
One of my highlights was a sunny Saturday morning at the big farmers’ market in Göttingen and realizing that strawberry and asparagus season are finally here! I also sometimes forget that Lower Saxony is a coastal(ish) state in Germany and that you can actually get crazy delicious fried fish rolls here. I really should make a Saturday morning trip into town more of a regular habit.
And Steffen and I finally hiked to one of Göttingen’s sights, the Rapunzel tower in the middle of the woods! It was such a cool experience to walk through a dense deciduous forest without seeing any human traces for an hour and then suddenly see this:
And the view from up there was even better! This was definitely a moment I loved living in Germany, because seriously — where else in the world could this happen to you?
I had planned on May being a glorious coffee month considering the trips I was going on. My little adopted home town has a few cute cafés, but a proper flat white or a even little heart in the foam of a latte is sadly not something you would ever find here.
Unfortunately, I didn’t get to try the best coffee in Luxembourg City (according to Instagram and Tripadvisor at least), because I somehow couldn’t find that coffee shop’s opening hours and only learned that everything is closed on Sundays in Luxembourg when we were standing in front of a closed coffee place.
But London absolutely made up for that: There are obviously way too many great coffees to try in London, but we did our best to drink as many as possible without over-caffeinating too much. And yes, I was in coffee heaven!
I sometimes wish my life was a little more like an Indiana Jones movie, but there are months I do not see a museum or medieval church from the inside.
I browse to the online gallery of the Metropolitan Museum every other day (see my all time favorite 14th century ivory casket here), but my reading assignments often keep me from working with actual artifacts most of the time: Art history is a humanity that consists of reading and writing and looking (at photos), so it’s kind of tricky to take a pretty photo and explain what I’m actually doing all day.
But I’m still including this section in my May round-up, because I actually managed to come to terms with the next big project in my academic career.
I dreaded to say it out loud for the longest time, let a alone write it on the internet, but there’s no way denying it now: I’m now officially working on my PhD dissertation and slightly freaking out, because there is so much to do and so little time and the responsibility that such a project comes with is downright terrifying sometimes.
I was a lazy photographer in May: I was too busy to shoot any portrait sessions and even though I took a lot of photos on the road, I only switched my lens once.
I stuck with my 50mm lens for the rest of the time and I once again realized that I love to travel with this lens only, because the 50mm is the closest to the human eye — and travel photography with it makes the on the road impressions look so real.
And another photography lesson learned this month: To take a great photo, you obviously have to know your camera and its technology very well, you have to consider light and composition and the rule of thirds — but sometimes you’re just somewhere in the right second and your camera settings don’t matter at all.
This snapshot I took in Camden is my favorite photo from the entire London trip, because it’s so raw, so real, so London. I know it’s not a photography masterpiece, but it tells so many stories and I’m completely obsessed with it: It gets even better the longer I look at it!
Ever since writing these monthly round-ups and introducing my most-liked Instagram photo of the month, I’ve realized that it is just so unpredictable what does well on the internet and what doesn’t. I assumed my London photos would do better, but instead my most liked photo in May was interestingly the first thing I snapped in pretty Luxembourg: This gorgeous view of the old town through the prettiest cherry blossoms!
Coming up in June
To be honest: nothing. I have zero trips planned for June and I’m almost a little relieved.
I always knew that I’m not a long-term traveler, but from March to May I felt like I was constantly running around. Taking eight different international flights in less than three months almost felt a bit hedonistic. So I’m really looking forward to reducing my ecological footprint and dis-burdening my tense shoulders from dragging luggage around.
I know, it’s not the point in writing a travel blog to go on a few trips and then complain about being exhausted. However, I still have a real-life job that is supposed to be my number one priority. And, I’m absolutely not complaining. I’m just glad to sleep in my own bed for the next weeks and enjoy June in Germany. June is usually my favorite month of the year and I’m really excited to be home for it.
Of course, I still stand by what I said last month: I want to travel and I will never ever stop planning trips to places that won’t happen anytime soon — but I know that I will make them happen eventually. Right now though, I’m just looking forward to enjoying June in Germany.
What were your highlights and low-lights in May?
PS: I’ve been experimenting with Snapchat during the last month and after being totally confused about it for the longest time, I think I’ve finally understood what it’s about. If you want to have a glimpse into my personal life (read: even more coffee photos and a stupid office selfie here and there), you can follow me @JulikaSarah.